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Don’t Worry, Be Happy!

Friday, November 18, 2011, 10:45 pm

When you love someone you automatically worry about them. And we’ve been taught that it’s ok to worry for our loved ones. That it’s even necessary sometimes.

Just now having a cold shower — which I haven’t had in months since I’m so accustomed to the comforts of having a hot shower — I had a sudden realization that worrying for someone you love is useless. In fact it can be hurtful and even dangerous when your worries manifest, which they very well have the potential to at anytime, given how much most people worry these days.

To explain this further will only be a failure. I would have to explain the principles of quantum physics and the law of likes, and I know I will do so badly. But if you need confirmation, the oldest book in the world tells you not to worry a little more than once or twice.

How can you love someone and hurt them at the same time? Stop hurting your loved ones, stop worrying!

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Project 365 – 008 – Till We Breathe No More

Monday, February 8, 2010, 11:51 pm

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Till we breathe no more.

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Love is an Illusion…

Friday, October 31, 2003, 11:29 pm

…and I’m pretty damn sure I’m not dreaming!!

update [1-30-2011]: I found love 4-1/2 years ago and I am now happily married. I apologize if this post has misled some of you in the matter of love. What I wrote genuinely reflected what was then the state of my heart, but time showed that even the most broken heart could be mended. I wish you all the best that life could give, and if love is a part of it, you are blessed.

update [4-28-2013]: added imagery