I have these two friends, one male and the other female (I haven’t seen her naked or anything but outer appearances tell me so). Let’s call them D and W for anonymity’s sake, but they should know who they are. D is the boy. Let’s just say W is and had always been D’s long lost love. She now returns to his life and his world is flipping about. Being people (human) reader, I’m certain of both their feelings. They love each other, no questions asked. What grinds my patience is that D has no guts to spill. He claims he did, but I don’t fucking believe him. W loves D in a way that she doesn’t want to get in the way. Confusing huh? She wants D to reach for his dreams. I couldn’t agree more. D wanting to get out of here, I told him that getting visas for two is harder than getting a visa for one’s self, wherever he might want to fly to. Girls (women) can become excess baggage in a split of a second it’s not even funny. When common logic rules, they have no future together, both agreed. But when their emotions melt, they’re inseparable, like rain and dirt (it’s got to fall). I usually don’t mind other’s business much, if not at all. But since these two are really close friends of mine, I’m becoming alergic to their behavior. It’s like they can’t fucking make up their damn minds!! No one is dumber than when they’re in love!! 
I’m not posting this in search of a solution. They can zap their own braincells dead and the devil may care. I’m simply ranting my annoyance to entertain you guys! 
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yes. we are at our least logical when we are in love.
Love gives me wind. I’m farting right now, just reading this…
transie » All the reason not to fall in love..
Lee » I’m farting right back at ya!!
women can be excess baggage? dang! couldn’t have said it better.
oh come ON. me and my bf are the total opposite of each other and we are so absolutely *not* made for each other but we fight to stay together and it works. all because we love each other. so actually falling in love was the best thing that could ever happen to me. if you love someone you should not stand in their way but if said person loves you they will never leave you behind.
they are obviously destined to be together, D and W are great letters together, DW, as in Darkwing Duck.
From W’s perspective I can understand it. She’s showing an interesting strength… she knows she wants this guy, but she wants this guy with some balls. She seems to know that if he isn’t able to take life by the horns and grab her… that he’s not the right guy for her.
And from his angle… well it’s scary yeah. But… I can’t allow myself to sympathize too deeply with someone like that at the moment. Stagnation is far far worse than being irrational in love
They’ll find out in time. Time always brings along wisdom and stuff like that. Grey hairs for example.
Your story is entertaining, but no moreso than your reaction! Ha ha. I have one little bit of advise to give young loves, it coming from my 55 massive years of experience (ha ha). You have to know what “in love” means. If by that you actually mean you’re infatuated with each other, for instance have only been together a few months, then for heaven’s sakes try to keep yourself from making any life-altering choices, like getting married, or getting passports together, or quitting your job to be togehter or something like that. Because one day you’ll WAKE UP.
dear jerm, help me
i am dying of boredom,
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
A » Thanks man but let’s not pump the balloon or we’ll never get laid again!
Nina » I was there once, it lasted 5 years before it came crashing down. I don’t mean to hurt your relationship or anything but when it comes to young love I’d have to agree with Stan there. I hope yours last though. I don’t know your guy but you seem like a very well-put-together person!
Jax » Darkwing Duck.. haha I miss that fucker!! I think you’re right man, the girl is showing great strength there. I just wish my buddy D were as strong, or as willed!
Kathleen » That’s why the fashion industry came up with hair dyes; but I’m more into cell-regeneration. Old folks in the Bible didn’t die till they’re at least hundreds of years old. Unfortunately today’s society get bored far too fast. Look at Hemal just a few lines below your comment! I guess it’s the same reason love doesn’t last, simple boredom with one another!
Stan » I may be young but I stand there right next to you on this one. I’m never getting married until I at least hit my 30s!
Hemal » Sorry to bore you.. get a new girlfriend or something, or a new computer to play with!
I´m pretty sure this relationship will not last but I will be damned if I don´t even try to make it work!
I guess what Stan means is that blind sort of love were you actually think your special someone is the best person on earth. With us it´s different. I know he can be a total asshole and he knows I can be a bitch every now and then (like most of the time haha) and we hate and love each other at the same time. I guess to know your faults and the others faults is quite a good basis for an honest relationship.
Ah well, I´ve been single forever so I can totally relate to you and your wish to be alone for a while. If it´s the right thing for you at this time, great!
I can’t be bothered with love right now. It’s too much distraction. It’s good though that Stan’s theory doesn’t apply to you, but I’ve been there too. It’s almost like I’ve been in all kinds of relationships to a point where I’d rather move on in life solo for a while.
Have fun fighting Nina!
Dood.. where are you? Don’t leave us now. DOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!